A Time of Loss

One of my best friends and co-worker lost his wife this past week after surgery. Everything was going well and she seemed in good spirits during recovery then, all of a sudden she was gone. I think the most often asked question is, why. Why did this happen to Kim? We don't know the answer to that question. Who does? I am certaintly not qualified to answer that one.
We can always offer the comfort that is needed during a time like this and we should. But, sometimes there is nothing to say. This may sound cold and unfeeling but nothing we say will bring Kim back.
I struggle with this as I try to be a comfort to my friend. What can I say? What can I do to help ease the pain he must be feeling. What about the kids? How do you comfort someone so young at the loss of their mom? I'm at a loss.
It may be different for others that seem to have the right words at the right time but thats not me. What I have to offer is my friendship. To be there when I'm needed.
Life goes on. Buddy, Tucker and Carrie Grace will go on. They have to.
The best I have to offer is the faith I have in Jesus. Without Him, the pain of losing someone can be unbearable. During the extended illness and death of my dad my faith is the main thing that kept me together. The prayers and support of my family and church helped to make the difference as well.
I don't have all the answers but I do have the best answer. Allowing Jesus to be a part of your life can bring the comfort we need during a time of loss